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#1 LateNitePilgrim

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Posted 08 March 2006 - 12:36 AM

I was just wondering how you all discovered Anal pleasure. I am a new convert to this particular brand of pleasure. It was always something I had wanted to try, but I had no idea how to go about it and I had a hard time finding a partner I trusted enough to lead me through it. I have to say while it took me some time to get comfortable with the idea, I can't rave enough about the end result.

what was your journey like?

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Posted 08 March 2006 - 11:13 AM

Serendipity smiled on me. We making love on the carpet. I was brand-new to sex and very excited about it; my first-ever vaginal experience had unfolded with this man just one month prior. I was relaxed and well lubricated. He withdrew and reinserted and—oops!—slipped into the "wrong" hole. We both instantly realized that the sensation was different. He pulled out immediately and apologized. Too late. Two seconds was enough for me to discover that I really liked anal pleasure.

We're still together 16 years later (married, in fact), and we still love anal sex.

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Posted 08 March 2006 - 03:29 PM

My first anal experience was HORRIBLE. Just plain awful... unprepared, uninformed, and intoxicated. We decided to go for it, and the sensation -- other than being terribly, terribly painful -- also brought to mind the image of a giant trout swallowing a piece of bait on one of those deep water fishing shows. *shudder*

After a year of fearfulness regarding anything to do with my rump, I had moved to Los Angeles and started working at the Stockroom. There I encountered a glorious book, which I read cover to cover, and enabled me to try again. Now I am proud to say that I am an anal enthusiast and absolutely LOVE IT.

I can't recommend this book enough for other gals looking to expand their anal horizons:

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Posted 10 March 2006 - 09:06 PM

I loved fingers in my ass from the time I was 16 and began having sex... still I resisted due to some internal voice of taboo. When I finally agreed I was lucky, my partner knew what he was doing. He was slow and steady.

I think that first initial time set my love affair in motion. I've been a convert ever since.
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Posted 12 March 2006 - 01:08 PM

It was before high school after finding copy of _The G Spot_ in my parent's library. It had some decent for the time information on prostate stimulation and since I was an adventurous type I dediced to give it a shot.

Sort of set my tendency for reading and applying sexual instructional material in my life.

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Posted 12 March 2006 - 04:25 PM

My first anal experience was absolutely downright horrible! :angry:

It occured a little more than three years ago with my then fiance and "Top" - I use the latter term very loosely. He was more domineering then dominant. One night after some sweaty sex (edit - him dripping sweat all over me), he decided that we would try it. If I had known he was of the "just shove it in" school, I would have thought twice about agreeing to it. I remember turning around and smacking him and that was that. I ended up making him sleep on the couch that night and the night thereafter. I broke it off with him not too long after that incident.

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I am in a new (and considerably healthier) relationship now and somehow my excitement for anal attention has been rekindled. We have only slightly broached the terrain so far (finger - expandable anal plug), but I am all about "going there" again!! I can barely contain myself. I find myself begging for it, even though it makes me quite nervous at the same time.

We shall see....... :wub:

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Posted 12 March 2006 - 06:57 PM

Katia congratulations for standing up for yourself, your body, your health, your mind, your spirit.

I think way too many men don't have a clue what they are doing... and way way too many beginners put up with pain because their lover wants it or they've seen it done in porn and everyone seemed to be having a great time.

Before you try anal sex on a partner I think you need to at least practice on yourself. Put a finger in and at some point a toy. Learn how your own body reacts before trying it out on another.
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Posted 12 March 2006 - 08:16 PM

Thank you!

A lot has changed since then. For one, I dont date men at all anymore. I was going through a lot of personal transformations in the midst of that relationship...especially towards the end. Looking back, I see that relationship as my last attempt at being straight and I eventually just came to the realization that I had to be true to myself in order to be happy. I had gotten myself to the belief that nothing with men felt right because I wasnt "trying hard enough" but in reality it just wasnt my fit. It never felt natural and never felt right and I was just a very unhappy creature.

Funny thing is, that it was during this time, that I told my current girlfriend that I didnt play with women!!! She rubs that in every chance she gets!! Now, I not only play with women (wel one in particular), but I an owned by one!!! :-)

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Posted 15 March 2006 - 03:38 PM

my first anal experience was with my ex- abusive boyfriend. he was so obsesive about asking for it, and i finally gave in. so he decided we should do it in the shower. BAD IDEA. i had no idea as to what i was doing, no concept of what should be done. so in the shower... the lube washed away. and lets just say the guy could be in porn. and he SHOVED it in. yeah it wasnt fun. now my current BF wants to try it, and i am nervous about it... i dunno.

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Posted 26 March 2006 - 06:12 PM

My first anal experience wasn't too long ago actually... I was giving a webcam show to a friend (we've talked about how curious we both were about it a while before) and he suggested I give it a try. Long story short I gave it a try off camera and thought it was simply ok. A few more tries though, and I do enjoy it more.

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Posted 27 March 2006 - 02:47 PM

Still waiting. More of exploration for me right now. I read and became interested in prostate play. I am just getting started. I enjoy anal play.  I have a fantasy to be taken with a strap on.

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Posted 27 March 2006 - 04:41 PM

My girlfriend fiends for me to try it with her...Anal Play ON ME that is......I just cant bring myself to try it.....

Too nervous......It's not the whole "I'll feel gay" thing......I don't know what it is really....I guess I'm just not into it.....I had a dream she tried putting her finger up there and it hurt so bad, i woke up and looked at her sound asleep and I sighed in relief that that was only a dream.......

I just don't think I could ever be into it.....But sometimes I get curious...... :D B)

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Posted 09 April 2006 - 01:57 PM

I have very little to say on this, other than the thing is to go SLOWLY. Read a book on it if you are nervous about it, but in my opinion the literature tends to downplay the sensations, which can be quite painful if you are not careful (or aren't going SLOWLY). Once your sphincter has relaxed enough, though, wow. It is quite enjoyable.

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Posted 10 April 2006 - 01:18 PM

my first experience was with a high school boyfriend. neither of us knew what we were doing but we went slow. while it wasn't overly painful or traumatic, it wasn't all that exciting either. my second experience was in college. it was better but the guy was big, i was tense and he was rather vigorous... all in all, not a good combo.

it was a long time before i even really considered it again. but slowly my curiosity got the better of me. my current partner doesn't care for anal at all really so i don't push the matter with him. we've established our boundries and what areas we're willing to explore. that's not one of his so i reserve it for myself. i have several toys that i like playing with, so its my special treats for when i spend some quality time with myself. :blush:

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Posted 15 April 2006 - 09:43 PM

my first time... was also my first time having sex. it was really lame -- he was a jerk, and it was one moment of uncomfortable burning in my pussy that was for a few minutes uncomfortable burning in my butt. I wasn't upset or in pain; being the first time for all of it, I was just kind of like, huh. that's it? but then again, he had a really unusually shaped penis (I found out later when I experienced other penises). it was really, really narrow like a thumb at the tip, so that's probably why it didn't really hurt.

the next time was a few years later and I wanted to be "bad". I wanted to get ass-fucked and knew nothing about it, so when my boyfriend shoved his condom-covered cock in my not warmed up ass, with no lube and not much arousal it hurt so bad I was like "get it out! get it out!" and thought I was going to die from the pain and embarrassment.

a few years later, I'd learned about vibrators, lube and talking during sex -- the trifecta of good sex (for me). the funny thing was, in reflection, I learned about anal to fuck my boyfriend up the ass, not the other way around. but in this instance, I was hugely turned on, my boyfriend was tied up and I just took my time sitting on his cock and putting a vibrator on my clit. I had a seperate vibrating dildo I was teasing my ass with -- and before I knew it, I had the whole thing in my ass, his cock in my pussy and the vibe on my clit -- double penetration, wow! It felt like absolute fucking godhead. I had no idea that I could get something that big (standard dildo size) in my butt, especially on the first time out. being turned on, being in control, using lots of lube and going at my own pace did the trick.

my primary partner isn't that into anal sex, which is too bad -- many of my fantasies include anal with me as a "helpless" bottom, and double penetration, and I like to give anal as much as I like to get it. but it's all good, as it's an open arrangement -- and I'm now light years away from my first uneducated, painful first.
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Posted 17 April 2006 - 07:00 PM

I had a lot of shame issues reading bottom play (think Sodomites cursed for all eternity) but I couldn't help but notice that when fingers slipped down that way there were some awfully nice sensations.

So eventually, I plucked up the courage to do myself back there whilst rubbing my clit and filling my pussy with a dildo. The results were sublime.

Nowadays, I liked to be probed and to probe. Just used a double-ended dildo to fuck my BF for the first time the other day. Let's just say that everyone was happy with the results! :)

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Posted 07 May 2006 - 03:50 PM

The first was when I was in my early 20s with a boyfriend. It went OK. No bad memories, no good memories. I tried it a couple of years later with another bf who had never done it before. Same.

And then still another couple years later I tried it with a bf, who I found out afterwards had extensive experience. I asked him for it before he told me how much he liked it. We were soulmates in that department but alas not much otherwise. We both enjoyed it thoroughly. He really sold me on it, and I don't hesitate to ask for it now with a bf who I trust. Trust is the essential thing. Trust that he will do it competently and not hurt me. I would be hesitant to be involved with a guy who isn't willing to give it to me.

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Posted 08 May 2006 - 08:09 PM

We worked up to it very slowly through our first few years together. First me reaming her asshole as a diversion to cunnilingus, then a finger lubricated with pussy juice a little way up in there, then KY and fingers going deeper, then toys started going up there, until eventually she demanded, "I want you to put your dick up my asshole".

She was well-lubed and ready for it and loved the sensation, but My Gawd! it felt so tight! I involuntarily said "Eeep!" once my erect penis was up there.

Obviously newbies to anal need to recite the mantra "Lube, Lube, Lube".

Edited by lykafox, 10 May 2006 - 06:55 PM.


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Posted 04 June 2006 - 05:30 PM

I noticed that most of these are women talking about their first time, Congrats!

I also noticed a man that was very, well reluctant but courious about it. Being a Man myself I may help in this like of conversation.

From my experience in anal sex as a man I have found a wonders thing. I can have multiple orgasms, 4,5, even yes 6 times. Without any worries of not being able to complete my loving wife partner afterwards with my finall release. Which I have to say is much greater than just the one, two, three, I'm done.

I can fall into complete exaustion from all the physical highs and lows.

Start small, with little results. Work your way to a size that is comfortable for you to use over and over. The one I really like is http://www.stockroom...Probe-P114.aspx This one is great, can be used on a strap-on as well.. I also love many of the strap-on attachments that my beloved wife can use on me.

one last word to the women out there on this topic. Have our man were a strap-on... work your heat up with it.. then slowly slide himself inside your loving back side..... just an evil thought

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Posted 27 June 2006 - 03:27 PM

I fingered a girls asshole but honestly never put my cock in. I'm very excited about the idea then again I do not want to end up being a nice girl's "first bad anal sex experience". When I actually have a Slave/girl friend again I might ask about how best to proceed and what kind of lube to use. It is definetly something I want to partake in alot...very few things are hotter then a woman's perfect perky ass.




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