Your first Anal Experience
Posted 08 March 2006 - 12:36 AM
what was your journey like?
Posted 08 March 2006 - 11:13 AM
We're still together 16 years later (married, in fact), and we still love anal sex.
Posted 08 March 2006 - 03:29 PM
After a year of fearfulness regarding anything to do with my rump, I had moved to Los Angeles and started working at the Stockroom. There I encountered a glorious book, which I read cover to cover, and enabled me to try again. Now I am proud to say that I am an anal enthusiast and absolutely LOVE IT.
I can't recommend this book enough for other gals looking to expand their anal horizons:
Posted 10 March 2006 - 09:06 PM
I think that first initial time set my love affair in motion. I've been a convert ever since.
~ Metis Black
Posted 12 March 2006 - 01:08 PM
Sort of set my tendency for reading and applying sexual instructional material in my life.
Posted 12 March 2006 - 04:25 PM
It occured a little more than three years ago with my then fiance and "Top" - I use the latter term very loosely. He was more domineering then dominant. One night after some sweaty sex (edit - him dripping sweat all over me), he decided that we would try it. If I had known he was of the "just shove it in" school, I would have thought twice about agreeing to it. I remember turning around and smacking him and that was that. I ended up making him sleep on the couch that night and the night thereafter. I broke it off with him not too long after that incident.
I am in a new (and considerably healthier) relationship now and somehow my excitement for anal attention has been rekindled. We have only slightly broached the terrain so far (finger - expandable anal plug), but I am all about "going there" again!! I can barely contain myself. I find myself begging for it, even though it makes me quite nervous at the same time.
We shall see.......
Posted 12 March 2006 - 06:57 PM
I think way too many men don't have a clue what they are doing... and way way too many beginners put up with pain because their lover wants it or they've seen it done in porn and everyone seemed to be having a great time.
Before you try anal sex on a partner I think you need to at least practice on yourself. Put a finger in and at some point a toy. Learn how your own body reacts before trying it out on another.
~ Metis Black
Posted 12 March 2006 - 08:16 PM
A lot has changed since then. For one, I dont date men at all anymore. I was going through a lot of personal transformations in the midst of that relationship...especially towards the end. Looking back, I see that relationship as my last attempt at being straight and I eventually just came to the realization that I had to be true to myself in order to be happy. I had gotten myself to the belief that nothing with men felt right because I wasnt "trying hard enough" but in reality it just wasnt my fit. It never felt natural and never felt right and I was just a very unhappy creature.
Funny thing is, that it was during this time, that I told my current girlfriend that I didnt play with women!!! She rubs that in every chance she gets!! Now, I not only play with women (wel one in particular), but I an owned by one!!! :-)
Posted 15 March 2006 - 03:38 PM
So take this razor, sign your name across my wrists
So everyone will know
Who left me like this
Posted 26 March 2006 - 06:12 PM
Posted 27 March 2006 - 02:47 PM
Posted 27 March 2006 - 04:41 PM
Too nervous......It's not the whole "I'll feel gay" thing......I don't know what it is really....I guess I'm just not into it.....I had a dream she tried putting her finger up there and it hurt so bad, i woke up and looked at her sound asleep and I sighed in relief that that was only a dream.......
I just don't think I could ever be into it.....But sometimes I get curious......
Posted 09 April 2006 - 01:57 PM
Posted 10 April 2006 - 01:18 PM
it was a long time before i even really considered it again. but slowly my curiosity got the better of me. my current partner doesn't care for anal at all really so i don't push the matter with him. we've established our boundries and what areas we're willing to explore. that's not one of his so i reserve it for myself. i have several toys that i like playing with, so its my special treats for when i spend some quality time with myself.
Posted 15 April 2006 - 09:43 PM
the next time was a few years later and I wanted to be "bad". I wanted to get ass-fucked and knew nothing about it, so when my boyfriend shoved his condom-covered cock in my not warmed up ass, with no lube and not much arousal it hurt so bad I was like "get it out! get it out!" and thought I was going to die from the pain and embarrassment.
a few years later, I'd learned about vibrators, lube and talking during sex -- the trifecta of good sex (for me). the funny thing was, in reflection, I learned about anal to fuck my boyfriend up the ass, not the other way around. but in this instance, I was hugely turned on, my boyfriend was tied up and I just took my time sitting on his cock and putting a vibrator on my clit. I had a seperate vibrating dildo I was teasing my ass with -- and before I knew it, I had the whole thing in my ass, his cock in my pussy and the vibe on my clit -- double penetration, wow! It felt like absolute fucking godhead. I had no idea that I could get something that big (standard dildo size) in my butt, especially on the first time out. being turned on, being in control, using lots of lube and going at my own pace did the trick.
my primary partner isn't that into anal sex, which is too bad -- many of my fantasies include anal with me as a "helpless" bottom, and double penetration, and I like to give anal as much as I like to get it. but it's all good, as it's an open arrangement -- and I'm now light years away from my first uneducated, painful first.
Posted 17 April 2006 - 07:00 PM
So eventually, I plucked up the courage to do myself back there whilst rubbing my clit and filling my pussy with a dildo. The results were sublime.
Nowadays, I liked to be probed and to probe. Just used a double-ended dildo to fuck my BF for the first time the other day. Let's just say that everyone was happy with the results!
Posted 07 May 2006 - 03:50 PM
And then still another couple years later I tried it with a bf, who I found out afterwards had extensive experience. I asked him for it before he told me how much he liked it. We were soulmates in that department but alas not much otherwise. We both enjoyed it thoroughly. He really sold me on it, and I don't hesitate to ask for it now with a bf who I trust. Trust is the essential thing. Trust that he will do it competently and not hurt me. I would be hesitant to be involved with a guy who isn't willing to give it to me.
Posted 08 May 2006 - 08:09 PM
She was well-lubed and ready for it and loved the sensation, but My Gawd! it felt so tight! I involuntarily said "Eeep!" once my erect penis was up there.
Obviously newbies to anal need to recite the mantra "Lube, Lube, Lube".
Edited by lykafox, 10 May 2006 - 06:55 PM.
Posted 04 June 2006 - 05:30 PM
I also noticed a man that was very, well reluctant but courious about it. Being a Man myself I may help in this like of conversation.
From my experience in anal sex as a man I have found a wonders thing. I can have multiple orgasms, 4,5, even yes 6 times. Without any worries of not being able to complete my loving wife partner afterwards with my finall release. Which I have to say is much greater than just the one, two, three, I'm done.
I can fall into complete exaustion from all the physical highs and lows.
Start small, with little results. Work your way to a size that is comfortable for you to use over and over. The one I really like is http://www.stockroom...Probe-P114.aspx This one is great, can be used on a strap-on as well.. I also love many of the strap-on attachments that my beloved wife can use on me.
one last word to the women out there on this topic. Have our man were a strap-on... work your heat up with it.. then slowly slide himself inside your loving back side..... just an evil thought
Posted 27 June 2006 - 03:27 PM
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